For me there are two types of BBQs; the lets dress up all cute and look at the food on the grill and the lets get down and dirty with a hotdog and some potato salad. I prefer the down and dirty, which means down and dirty apparel.

If you are anything like me – the “down and dirty” look is a carefully crafted masterpiece. You’ve gotta look carefree and fabulous at the same time. I have managed to concoct the perfect formula for such a look.

Key Ingredients:

- 1 loose fitting and fashion forward top. This is perfect for actually eating at a BBQ!

- 1 pair of cut off denim shorts. Denim shorts are so hot right now, so going with this “lazy days of summer” look will actually score you tons of fashion points.

- 1 pair of Havaianas flip flops. I strongly advise against going with some “other” brand of flip flops because Havaianas are the best.

Optional Ingredients:

- A pair of Wayfarer sunglasses.

- Oversized tote (you need something to bring your BBQ contribution.)

- Stylish hair band to keep your hair out of your face in the hot-hot heat.

Carefully mix all ingredients with fashionable care and head off to your BBQ! Have fun and eat a hotdog for me.

After a long day roughing it in heels, there’s nothing I like more than coming home to super comfy, super soft slippers.  During the winter, you can’t get me out of my White & Warren cashmere slippers, but during the summer you’ll find me in my Mella Terry Flip Flops.  I became obsessed with these since the first time I’ve ever tried them on, years ago.  Unlike rubber flip flops, the straps will never cut into your feet and the terry cloth provides extra soft cushioning for feet.  Although I choose just to wear these at home, the rubber sole makes this shoe even appropriate to wear outside- though I would steer clear of the beach.  The flip flops also come in a platform version, with 2 and 1/4in wedge to give you a little boost.  Super cute with jeans or a mini skirt.

It’s no surprise to anyone who knows me that I have a huge amorous crush on Lady Gaga.

It’s been a long time since we’ve seen a woman who does fashion by her own rules, and I’d love to see more, More, MORE Gaga-esque boldness and playfulness hitting the streets around us.  Including on you.  And me.

Siwy Hannah Slim Crop Jean in Wet Jet: I love that these mimic Gaga’s infamous latex body suits, but may be a tad more comfortable for everyday wear.

Siwy Sophie Slim Crop Pant in Jet and Onyx Mesh or also in Wanderlust/Onyx: the peak-a-boo styling on these would be great coupled with an oversized blazer and big glasses.

(Anyone else suspect Michelle Siwy is a Lady Gaga fan?)

Most importantly, is that with finding someone like Lady Gaga an inspiration, is to remember that the most sincere form of flattery is not replicating, but doing your own bright & bold thing (though that wouldn’t stop me from wearing these in her honor)!